Navigating Extended Family Input
Setting Boundaries
Helpful Phrases: - "We're considering all suggestions thoughtfully" - "We want our child's name to reflect our values" - "We appreciate your input and will decide together" - "We're taking time to find the perfect name"
Creating Structure: - Set specific times for name discussions - Create a suggestion box/list - Have private couple discussions - Present united decisions
Honoring Without Obligation
Creative Compromises: - Use honor names as middles - Modify traditional names slightly - Choose names with similar meanings - Create new traditions
Managing Disappointment: - Acknowledge feelings respectfully - Explain decisions thoughtfully - Offer other honoring opportunities - Stay firm in boundaries