Funerals and Mourning

Death Announcements

Faire-part de décès: - Formal printed announcements - Sent to extended network - Include funeral details - May request no flowers - Charity donations suggested - Response expected

Funeral Etiquette

Attendance Guidelines: - Wear black or dark colors - Arrive quietly on time - Sign condolence book - Follow religious customs - Minimal conversation - Leave quietly after service

Expressing Condolences: - "Mes sincères condoléances" - Brief and formal - Avoid platitudes - Share specific memories - Offer concrete help - Send written condolences

Post-Funeral Gatherings

Reception Norms: - Usually simple refreshments - Subdued atmosphere - Share memories quietly - Don't overstay - Thank family before leaving - Follow up later

Cultural Context Box: Toussaint (All Saints' Day)

November 1st sees French families visiting graves with chrysanthemums. This tradition maintains strong despite secularization. Understanding Toussaint helps explain why chrysanthemums are funeral flowers never given as gifts.